Step into a golden-hour patio where the lights are soft, the heaters are cozy, and the river glimmers in the background. This is a space for sapphics to meet face-to-face, laugh, linger, and feel that flutter of butterflies.
This is sapphic speed dating reimagined: slower, sweeter, and intentionally designed for connection that feels real. You’ll be guided through short, heart-centered conversations that spark curiosity and chemistry.
Think of it as a blend of flirty date night energy and a supportive community circle.
For all those who identify as sapphic craving real, heart-fluttering connection.
πΏ Event Details
* When: Thursday, Oct 30, 5-8 PM
* Where: Back patio at Luma Eatery & Bar, 50 E Washington St, Petaluma, CA
* Who: 20 sapphics
* Cost: $25 + your drinks/dinner
*Dress: We will be outside on heated patio, please dress accordingly based on the weather that day.
*Food: Regular Luma menu
*Drinks: Cocktails and Mocktails on Luma menu
π Schedule
* 5:00 PM — Check-in & drinks on the patio
* 5:30 PM — Doors close. Intro Circle then Guided mini-conversations with rotating partners
* 7:00 PM — Dinner (wait-staff takes orders) + Gift basket giveaway from a local sapphic business
* 8:00 PM — Event ends, stay as long as you like for dinner and lingering connection
(Dinner may last longer with all of us ordering simultaneously, could slow things down)
π« Sensory-Friendly Space
* All neuro-types welcome
* Outdoors with airflow
* No overhead music
* Scent-free (please avoid perfumes & essential oils)
* Bring noise-canceling headphones, earbuds, or stim toys if helpful
* Hosted by an autistic facilitator, embracing her own stim needs
Your comfort comes first — do what feels good, wear what feels good!
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Oct 30, 2025 Β· 5:00 PM - Oct 30, 2025 Β· 8:00 PM(GMT-08:00) Pacific Time (US & Canada)
There is a large parking lot. Luma is located at the back of the lot near the river.
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Please do not attend if you feel sick or display symptoms.
Age: 21 and over
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